Wow, ok so here we go… This is a complete mess! The fathers body sin cold storage, and I am the next of kin!! REALLY!! Are we the only ones that see the irony in this? So his new girlfriend wanted to cremate him right away…I also found out that the body was NEVER examined by a physician. The physician OKd the order by phone and today thought he had died in a hospital??!! WTF? Everyone keeps telling me that Pat, the new GF was taking care of him and she told me she was the one that was there when he died, and she wasn’t even the one who called it in!! The call came early in the morning, not in the evening like I was told, and the call didn’t come from the residence, it came from a home health agency!!! So who’s story is accurate?
So what to do.. I now have for the first time a shard of control over him, not that I wanted this but I may enjoy for a bit! Is that wrong? I want to see his body. I want to make sure its really him and really gone! he is on ice at the moment. He isn’t getting any older at least!.
I ned help from the few of you that read this. Please tele what you would do…Would you let them burn him, even though you know its against his wishes and she’s just trying to be cheap, or do the inquiry and to hell with what any of them want and just get the truth out!
What the hell do y’all think??????